The right to privacy

 

     I no doubt upset a niece yesterday.  I did not intend to do so; I was merely defending my right to privacy.  She had posted a childhood picture of me online and had tagged it with my name.  (Another relative posts childhood pictures of me with no consideration and she refuses to take them down when asked to.  She’s not a nice person.)  This is the first time this niece posted a picture of me and I think I shocked her by my protest.  However, I do not apologize for my actions.

     Do we not have very little privacy left to us as it is these days?  You will notice that on my blog and Facebook page there are very few pictures of me.  Could it be because I don’t want them out there?  Why yes!

     I consider my right to privacy as valuable as yours is.  I’m sure you wouldn’t appreciate me posting bad pictures of you or your private thoughts on the web whenever the mood strikes me.  I will ask your permission to post a picture or a quote before doing so.  I expect the same courtesy in return.  Yes, it is courteous to ask one’s permission.  In my case, it is also a copyright violation to post any of my stuff without my explicit permission.

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Posted on January 16, 2012, in Misc and tagged , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.

  1. The niece and other “relative”, would they be the 2 you’ve told me about in the past? I totally agree with you about getting permission to post pictures. I’ve had that done to me on facebook. They were group pictures, but not one person was asked if it would be okay to do so. At the risk of offending the person, I tagged the pics as spam so I could get them removed from my wall. I also don’t like it when someone tags you with a pic on facebook of someone you don’t even know and the caption says it is you. Totally tasteless in my opinion (yet I do like the gal who did this).

    The niece is NOT one you know of, however, the ‘other’ relative is the one known to my friends as TB. ;D

  2. Uh yeahhhh, I thought as much that TB was who you meant, LOL. Couldn’t you go after her with the copyright law behind you? I think that would worry her some, unless she’s so thick-skinned….hmmm the word alligator comes to mind for her, so maybe not…

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