Monthly Archives: January 2016

No, the MS society didn’t pay for it…or any of the various walkers he has

I ordered The Curmudgeon a new rollator. I found one that converts to a transfer chair. It will come in handy when he falls and I have to get him from one room to the next.

A Duet Transport Wheelchair Rollator Walker.

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Duet-Transport-Wheelchair-Rollator-Walker pic 2I hope it makes things a little easier. His older walker I’ll move upstairs and I’ll take the rollator from up there (it’s too heavy for me to easily carry down the porch stairs and lift into car) over to Good Shepherd and donate it. That way someone who really needs a rollator will have a good one.

This way we’ll still have two lightweight enough walkers in the house, upstairs and down, and the new one I will use as a transport chair for him when necessary.

It’s sad that this has to be his birthday gift this year.

It’s never cheap living with this disease. Between his medications and specialized equipment he needs, we’re never out of the hole.

The best laid plans…

In this house making plans is a lesson in futility. Never fails, if I make plans, The Curmudgeon has a bad day and wrecks them, or one of the dogs has issues.

I planned to go grocery shopping. I never made it out the door.

Nope, Lucy did something she hasn’t done for a long while. She ate her poop. Then she threw up in her crate. The stench! OMG, the stench!

Oh, boy, howdy, does my gag reflex work well. Got so bad, The Curmudgeon finished cleaning out her crate.

Afterwards, I had to wash all the dog bedding and even threw in the covering on the couch while I was at it.

The house smells better now.

HPIM4785That will teach you to not take me out when I wake up.

A tad warmer

At least we’re not in the teens or below.

Lucy and Gavin still wasted no time again doing their business. Hooray, I am never fond of the cold and the less time spent in it the happier I am.

The Curmudgeon had a poor walking day. It’s hard to see him barely able to get around even with his walker. Harder still, knowing it’s only going to get worse.

I find myself wishing every day that we lived on a beach, stress levels down to nothing, and no stairs for him to climb.

We can’t even find anyone to fix the porch. I need the attic cleaned to and can’t find anyone willing to do it. You see they are small jobs and not worth anyone’s time. So we’re stuck with the mess and the stress.

Time to take Lucy out, she’s looking for her hat and hoodie. Silly girl.

HPIM4697The steps are worse than this now. Sucks I can’t find anyone to fix them.

 

Colder still

Even the dogs are wishing for an indoor toilet. Twelve degrees out there with a real feel temperature of -3, oh so not fun!

Go outside? Not without my hoodie and hat, Momma.

 

Lucy ready for snow

Ew, it’s cold outside.

Ah yes, wintertime! Where you are trapped in a small area with loved ones who, by the end of the snowfall, (yay, so far we’ve had none but we have had lots of rain) …oh yeah, where was I? Who, by the end of the snowfall and digging out, you wish you were in Donner pass and they were dinner.

Wintertime, where young, strong idiots comment about older folks complaining they need help to shovel their walks and the older folks should get over it and do the work. Excuse me?!

I, for one, was ordered by my cardiologist to never shovel snow again if I wanted to stay alive. Secondly, my husband has secondary progressive MS and can barely stand much less walk and shovel snow. And we should ‘get over it and get to work.’

He should be grateful he’s young and strong and should get over himself because he’s at about the same age my husband was when he was first diagnosed with MS.

Karma is a bitch and she loves slapping arrogant people upside the head.

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I’m just not a winter person

We had such nice December weather that I’m not looking forward to the upcoming cold weather of January and February.

I never liked being cold even as a child. Sure, I could ice skate and ski but did I want to? Nope. Breaking my arm on ice skates was the best thing that ever happened to me, it gave me an excuse for not going out in the cold.

Lucy agrees with me. With it down below freezing last night she went out and peed faster than normal.

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I remember Mom.

Has it truly been eight years since my mother died? Seems like only yesterday that I heard the news…too late to attend her funeral.

I have one of “those” sisters.

It’s also been eight years since I’ve talked to my only remaining sister. Amazing since my phone number hasn’t changed in 42 years.

Can’t really say I have a single sister left can I? Oh well. Such is life.

Mom in 1950

Mom

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When the New Year crept in…

I was the only one awake in my house.

When the New Year crept in…

Some idiots set off fireworks that woke up and upset our Lucy. She’s settled back down and snoring again.

When the New Year Crept in…

I didn’t drink any champagne this time. I didn’t wish anyone Happy New Year.

When the New Year crept in…

I cried. I kept thinking about facing another year the same or worse than the last one.

don't fucking care bear