Category Archives: My blog

I played with the camera today

We should go fishing

     My two favorite Fotosketched pics of DH fishing.

It’s grilling season already

 

     I need to uncover, clean, and check the gas in the grill.  I’ve been too lazy to do it and if I don’t get it done, it’ll be past grilling season before I know it.

     Over the last few weeks, I could’ve been doing most of my cooking outside but the grill needed cleaning.  Are you sensing a trend here?

     I guess I need more incentive like the arrival of my meat order and those lovely filet mignon that are in it.  Yep, once those babies get here I’ll trip over myself to get the grill cleaned and ready to use.

     You all have a safe holiday weekend.  If you’re traveling, drive with care.

I love this weather

 

     It was hot outside yesterday and the dogs are quite spoiled by their Daddy’s need for air conditioning.  Patty spent the day sprawled out on the couch and Gavin alternated between his chair and the floor in front of the air conditioner.

     I spent most of the day outside planting some of my flowers and veggie plants and working on the pond.  I only came in to rehydrate and take the dogs out to pee.  Well, it was more like dragging the dogs out.  They didn’t want to leave the air conditioning.  DH and the dogs think I’ve lost my mind.  I hate to tell them that it took a walk a long time ago.

     I’ll be out working on the garden again today.  I need to weed along the back fence and get the rest of the tomatoes planted there.  Then on Tuesday, I need to buy more potting soil so I can put flowers in the pots out front and in the wrought iron stand that I brought home from the MIL’s house.

I sooo need this!

 

2010 in review

The stats helper monkeys at WordPress.com mulled over how this blog did in 2010, and here’s a high level summary of its overall blog health:

Healthy blog!

The Blog-Health-o-Meter™ reads Wow.

Crunchy numbers

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A helper monkey made this abstract painting, inspired by your stats.

The average container ship can carry about 4,500 containers. This blog was viewed about 14,000 times in 2010. If each view were a shipping container, your blog would have filled about 3 fully loaded ships.

In 2010, there were 352 new posts, growing the total archive of this blog to 794 posts. There were 134 pictures uploaded, taking up a total of 87mb. That’s about 3 pictures per week.

The busiest day of the year was January 19th with 102 views. The most popular post that day was Crossing Castle off my list of shows .

Where did they come from?

The top referring sites in 2010 were en.wordpress.com, WordPress Dashboard, Google Reader, croneandbearit.wordpress.com, and alphainventions.com.

Some visitors came searching, mostly for ampyra, bottom line books, bottom line books scam, dog slave, and potted vegetable garden.

Attractions in 2010

These are the posts and pages that got the most views in 2010.

1

Crossing Castle off my list of shows January 2010
8 comments

2

Bottom Line books scam part 2 January 2009
16 comments

3

About Me October 2008

4

Dog slave April 2010
2 comments

5

Ampyra authorization June 2010
4 comments

If wishes were horses

 

     Three weeks after I got married my parents, grandmother, and baby sister moved a great distance away.  It was a long time before any family moved back to the area. 

     No family members live here now.  When relatives travel, they never seem to get near our area.  Our location is sort of like Rhode Island; you only go there if that is your destination.

     I have traveled to my father’s old hometown to visit cousins and aunties but it’s difficult to do so as often as I’d like to when I have to do the eight-hour drive alone.  DH doesn’t travel well.  A long car ride is excruciatingly painful for him.  Consequently, as much as he loves visiting my family, he’d rather stay home with the dogs where he is more comfortable. 

     Therefore, to torture myself, I periodically browse the real estate listings in the old hometown.  I love to hit the bird’s eye view when looking at properties close to my family. 

     Tonight, I went browsing, and spied two houses that I loved.  One lovely home was across the road from a cousin’s house.  I hit the bird’s eye view and looked for my aunt’s house on the next road.  I could actually see my cousin’s horses out in the pasture.  [Sigh]  The idea of living near loving family brings out a case of the ‘I wishes’ in me.

A new sexy look

 

     Surprise!  I’ve changed the look of the blog again.  I’d debated repeatedly on whether or not to change to this one when it came out.  I do like the large print.  I love the colors and that my picture fit perfectly on the header with only a minimal cropping.

     With winter approaching fast, I felt the blog needed a lighter more uplifting appearance.  I’m happy with this one.

     I hope you all enjoy it.

Passed the two-year mark

 

     Two years ago on October 3, when I began this blog, I never expected to see over sixty thousand hits.  Heck, I was thrilled when I hit the one hundred mark. 

     Now, I’m just plain old grateful that folks like you read this blog.  I’m happy you come back often and comment here. 

     I’m grateful for the patience that those of you who want to read my books have shown.  I’m not world’s fastest writer.  I do hope that when they are finally out there, they are good enough for you.  I don’t want to give you shoddy work.  I want to give you the best I can do.

     I’ve made some good friends through this blog, and for that, I am grateful.

     This has been a fantastic learning experience for me.

     Thank you, Dear Readers.

Never work in a snake pit

 

     For lack of anything to watch on TV tonight, DH turned on that Undercover Boss show.  I was working at the computer and only half listening.  However, I did come to the conclusion that if someone had done that at one of places where I worked for a very short time I might still be working there.

     This office made you dread having to go to work.  I stayed only a couple of months.  I couldn’t take the vicious backbiting and stress it caused.  When I left there, I felt a great sense of relief.  How I left there was inspired.  I’d had a particularly bad day of dealing with malicious coworkers and impulsively called the human resources department. 

     “How do I quit this job?  Do you want two weeks notice or what?”  I asked.

     They tried to persuade me to stay but I’d had it.  They even offered to transfer me to another location.  I still wasn’t interested.  They finally told me that since I was only part time I could leave straight away.  I told them I’d finish out the day but that would be it.

     Before I left that day, I typed a letter to my boss explaining why I decided this was not the place for me and left it on his desk—he was never one to be found in his office.  In the letter, I told him it was no wonder that they had such a huge turn over in help.  They needed to clean out their snake pit if they wanted anyone to stay more than a month or two.

If it’s Thursday I’m not home

 

     Two Thursdays a month, I go to my local Borders and meet with other writers for a critiquing group.  Well, it used to be writers it’s not that now.  The group has shrunk down to only two of us.  One writer, after self-publishing, decided she didn’t need a critiquing group and left.  Another member became too ill to attend.  The third member lost interest and stopped writing. 

     Now we are two, two very determined writers, passionate in our craft.  We push each other forward and hone our writing techniques to a fine edge. 

     Yes, it would be better to have more people in our group.  However, finding writers willing to meet at one o’clock on a Thursday afternoon isn’t easy.

     We both have other people who review our work.  Dave, G, Jackie, and Elena read mine.  I read Dave’s manuscripts.  I can’t imagine not having them tear into my books.  They are valuable assets.

Learn from rejection

 

     You can learn from rejection.  Don’t ‘huh?’ me, you heard correctly.  Rather than allow a rejection to put you into a fetal position, and cause you to cry and rage against the world, doesn’t it make more sense to figure out the why of it?

     In writing, there are several forms of rejections sent out by agents and editors.  I’ll list a few.  A. The form letter, this one is no help whatsoever.  B. The ‘we love your work’ rejection letter where they actually court you a bit then drop you on your ass leaving you feeling like a jilted lover.  C. The rejection letter that comes with constructive criticism—one of the best types to get.  D. The nasty ‘don’t quit your day job’ letter.

     The form letter is the lazy way out.  Nine chances out of ten your manuscript sat on their desk for a few weeks and they never read it.  Check them off your list and try someone else. 

     We love your work kick in the teeth rejections are the hardest to take.  I’ve heard seasoned writers cry over them.

     The constructive criticism rejection letter is one to take seriously.  Read it carefully, listen to what they tell you, go back to your manuscript and work like hell on it.

     The don’t quit your day job letter is tough to take but if everyone who has read your work seems to say the same thing, well, maybe your book really wasn’t as great as you thought it was.  Then again, the person who read it might have had a bad day.  Try a critiquing group and listen to them.