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Gavin and the dreaded E-collar

   

You try sleeping in this thing!

 

     I am listening to a dog whining and shaking an E-collar against the sides of his crate as I sit here writing.  Yep, Gavin’s ear started to act up again.  He’s not happy with me right now.  I’m not happy with his ear.  I thought we’d finally beaten it.  We were in the process of weaning him off his prednisone.  Guess we won’t do that right away.   

     At last, he has settled down to sleep.  I hope he sleeps through the night.  Tomorrow I’ll make another appointment with the vet and once again, he won’t get his shots because his ear is causing problems that will require more antibiotics.  Sigh.  I swear he knows when we’re going to take him for shots and he starts digging his ears so he won’t get them.  He hates going to the vet.  He’s the first dog we ever had that hated going there.  

     We did have a cat who hated it.  My old Siamese played Jekyll and Hyde.  She was the sweetest cat in the world until she was on that exam table.  You’d swear the devil had taken possession of her as soon as the vet walked into the room.  

Relocating a snake, a color changing Koi, and a toad hideout

 

     Last night I removed a rather large garter snake from my garden and relocated him to a distant area of the cemetery.  The snake might have been large enough to make a meal of my littlest Koi and I wasn’t taking any chances.  The little Koi is growing rapidly and turning into quite a character.  He (We’ll use he here because at this age who knows.) never misses a meal.

     When I first got him he was tiny compared our other Koi.  Since then his size has quadrupled.  He’s not afraid of the much bigger Koi either.  He’ll swim right over their heads to seize a prime piece of food.  When I brought him home he was black and yellow and, much to my disappointment, he’s become more black and orange than yellow.  However, his personality makes up for his change of color.  He is a brazen little devil.

     We hadn’t seen our toad since the night my neighbor’s son gave him to us and we set him free in the garden.  Last night I found him quite by accident.  I picked up the green recycling can to put it out and there he was not happy that I discovered his hiding place.  I inverted a clay pot over him and propped one end up with a small clay saucer so he could get out if he wanted.  DH said he was gone when he put the can back in the morning.

The answers are in the wind

 

     It was on the tip of my tongue and then whoosh it was gone.  It happens to me all the time.  It’s not age related because I’ve always been that way.  Sometimes it names—well, most of the time it is, other times it is movie titles, book titles, authors, song titles, you name it and I’ve probably stumbled over it.

     Get me in a game of Trivia and I will lose.  I know the answers but my brain seizes up and misplaces them.  I sit there dumb as a post.

     DH sometimes will ask me who movie stars are in a movie we’re watching and even though I know their names for the life of me, I can’t tell him.  That is until hours later when the names flash into my brain.  Of course, he’s probably in bed by then and the answer is useless.

     I’ve been told it’s because my brain is so busy with other things that trivia tends to waft off to the ether.  I like that explanation it’s much better than thinking my brainpan is fried.

Summer is dashing by

 

     It’s August already.  I’m wondering where the time went.  Winters seem to drag but spring and summer dash past.  I look at the calendar and realize that I haven’t accomplished half of what I wanted to by this time. 

     I didn’t paint the kitchen.  I didn’t buy the shelves for the back porch and put them up.  The pups still need vet appointments and shots—note to self: must do that this week.  I didn’t put in the patio I so desperately wanted to do.  G and I didn’t get much walking in either.  I’ve missed too many critiquing sessions due to things on my end or the other people’s.

     However, it is worth it to put some things on the back burner and do other stuff that brings a smile.  I’ve played in the dirt and watched things grow.  I had the shed painted.  I’ve spent time with DH and that’s a precious commodity.  I’ve played with the dogs—another joy for me.  I’ve taken my dear friend G to lunch and she’s taken me.  Which means it’s my turn to take her out again. 

     I’ve made new friends.  I enjoyed another writers’ conference.  DH and I have celebrated another anniversary.  Yep, it’s worth it.

Thank you Mom

 

     Yesterday would’ve been my mother’s 95th birthday if she were still with us.  G, DH, and I had some cake in her honor.  G and her husband always helped us celebrate Mom’s birthday when she visited in the summer.  A few times, we got Mom with a surprise birthday cake either here or at my Aunt’s home.  Other times we took her out to dinner for her birthday and yes, even then she got cake.  Mom loved birthday cakes.

     Mom also loved hummingbirds and always had feeders out for them.  They would flock to her feeders.  G made her a stained glass hummingbird one year.  Mom treasured it. 

     Now as for me, I never can seem to get hummingbirds to come to my garden.  As soon as I’d see one I’d put up a feeder and then they never came back.  I gave up a few years ago and gave away my feeders.  The other day when I brought home yet another hummingbird feeder DH asked me, why had I bought a hummingbird chaser?  Yeah, he’s a real funny guy.

     Yesterday Mom sent me a sign that she is watching over us.  I sat outside and watched a female ruby throated hummingbird go from flower to flower in my garden.  I whispered a quick thank you to my Mom

The hurrier I go the behinder I get…

 

     DH seemed to have a bit more energy today.  It could be either the cooler mornings we’ve had the last couple of days or the new medication.  He was doing well, until he went out into the hot shed, and removed the old battery from the riding mower.  The heat in there wiped him out for a little while.

     However, he did recover enough to take a short ride with me to a little hardware store.  There, we turned in the old battery and bought a new one.  Now he can run the mower without having to jump-start it each time.  He can also shut it off to move things, instead of exhausting himself by moving everything before he begins to mow.

     If I know ahead of time that he’s planning to mow, I will move everything the night before.  It doesn’t always work that way.  He often mows on a whim when he’s feeling well enough to do it.  Now he’s mowed the yard and I have to trim. 

     That was another reason to go to the hardware store.  I went to trim the yard yesterday and ran out of string on the trimmer before I’d gone two feet.  Ever notice at times that even though you think you’re ahead, you’re actually behind?

The Ampyra arrived and so it begins…

 

     After a complete cluster f***—it seems that the right hand had no idea what the left hand was doing.  Gazillion phone calls from DH to the insurance company, the drug company, the doctors’ offices, and back again to straighten things out, we got a phone call saying the drug was on its way.  Then another one saying it wasn’t.  More phone calls and finally the Ampyra was on its way (again) this time it arrived.

     Ampyra day one: DH’s Ampyra arrived at nine in the morning Thursday morning.  He took his first dose soon afterwards.  He’s supposed to take two a day twelve hours apart.  I’m not sure how long or how many doses it’ll take before he notices a difference, if there is a difference.  We’re hoping for some changes.  It’d be nice if his walking improved.

     We’ll give it a few days to a week to see if there is any change.  I’ll let you all know if there is.  Keep your fingers and toes crossed.  It would mean a lot to him if his walking improves.

Garden gossip

 

     I should have waited another week to pick the watermelon.  It wasn’t ripe.  I do have another one growing.  Maybe this time I’ll know better.  I don’t know if I’ll try growing them again next year or go for a small seedless variety.

     The tomatoes are turning red now that we’ve had a few cool nights.  In another day, at least two will be ready for picking.  Next week I can harvest the two eggplants in the back garden.  Yum, fried eggplant is one of my favorites.  The first one I’ll fry and the next one I’ll grill.  Yeah, sometimes I need to cook healthy stuff.  DH will only eat them fried so I’ll share the grilled ones with G.  There will be many more to pick after that because the potted eggplant plant is loaded with them.  (Next year all the eggplants will go into pots.)  G and I can enjoy some moussakka and other dishes with the others since DH quickly tires of eggplant.  He can have hamburgers or something.

     Even after giving a lot away, I have so many sweet Hungarian and banana peppers I’ve begun to put them in almost everything I cook.  They are so mild in flavor you hardly can tell they are there.  Now the cherry peppers, Anchos, poblanos, and pimento peppers are starting to ripen.  It’s a good thing I love peppers. 

     I have one good-sized cucumber in the fridge and a gazillion tiny ones on the vines.  Last night I cut one cucumber into strips and munched them down, they made a lovely fresh, light snack.

A rare treat

 

     I wandered out to the garden this afternoon to take a break from writing and I was glad I did.  I got one heck of a photo op.  There, directly behind my yard, up on a telephone wire, sat a red-tailed hawk.  I dashed inside for my camera praying that no one scared him off while I was inside. 

     I snapped a few shots from the yard.  Several people walked under him never seeing this magnificent bird.  Many city people are not observant of nature.  Since he hadn’t moved, I unlocked my gate and walked down to where I was almost directly beneath him.  He practically posed for the pictures.

     When I got the shots I wanted, I ran to G’s house and told her husband to grab his camera there was a fantastic hawk photo op if he hurried.  He did and he got some great shots too. 

     Every year for at least the last twenty years we’ve had a pair of red-tail hawks nesting in the ancient and very tall horse chestnut trees in the cemetery.  Getting pictures of them is a rare treat since they usually stay hidden because the crows tend to mob them.

Begging my muse for help

 

     My muse got to laughing at me today.  I don’t get any respect around here.  I sat down to do some writing and she wouldn’t help me out.

     “Now where was I?”  I asked her.

     “You snooze you lose.”

     “Oh, come on I’ve been busy.”

     She giggled and stretched out on the couch moving Patty to the floor.  “I’m on vacation.”

     “No you’re not.  I need you to inspire me I have to work on two books today.”

     She sipped a drink with a little umbrella in it.  “Not gonna happen.”

     “Hey, where’d you get the drink?  At least you could share the beverage if you won’t help me work.”

     “You couldn’t handle this.  It’s not for mortals.”

     “Then inspire me.  Please?”

     “It was a dark and stormy night…”  More giggles from her.

     “You’re real funny.”

     “No seriously.  Imagine the storm, the thunder, the lightning, the deluge of rain.”

     “Had that yesterday any more brilliant flashes of insight?”

     “You’re always telling me that your settings suck.  I just gave you one to work with there.”

     “Okay, let’s see.  The characters are in a small town, it’s March…Hey, I think I’ve got it!”

     “Good.  Now leave me alone.”

It’s little old me the klutz again

 

     Only a true klutz can whack the same knee in the same place four times in less than an hour.  Yep, me again.  When I managed to do this, I was out in the melon patch picking cucumber bugs off the leaves and vines.  I was stepping back behind my rather large gargoyle to reach them and then stepping back out to drop the bugs in a jar of soapy water.  Each time I did it, I managed to hit my knee on the gargoyle.

     This isn’t a knee height gargoyle like the one pictured with the watermelon, this one is almost as tall as I am.  Don’t ask how I kept hitting my knee because I haven’t figured it out yet.  I guess I should slow down or something when I’m chasing those bugs.  I have managed to put a dent in their population along with the dent in my knee.

     At least I didn’t sprain my ankles again.  No, I look like I frequently did as a child.  I have a skinned knee.  I know when I go out to lunch with G later today she’ll have a good laugh.

The midnight gardener

 

     We’ve still no break in the heat and humidity here.  The veggies don’t mind they are growing like crazy.  Then again, so are the weeds.  Since the veggie garden is in the area of the yard that gets the most sun and it gets it all day, it’s been impossible to spend much time out there weeding it without suffering from heat stroke.

     Thus, I’ve become the midnight gardener and am out weeding by flashlight at the oddest hours.  I’m also killing the cucumber bugs as I come across them.  My neighbors think I’m strange.  That’s okay though because I’m one-step ahead of the bugs and the weeds doing it this way.

     Do you know how you tell someone is an avid gardener?  They will pull weeds out of yours as they converse with you.  I had a young woman stop by the fence and admire the garden today.  She was talking to me about perennials and I went to the gate to unlock it and invite her in.  I offered her a few of my more prolific perennials that have taken over some areas of the flower gardens.  While we talking and I was digging them out for her, she began to pull a few weeds.  It reminded me of G and me when we are checking out each other’s gardens.  We do the same thing.  Spotting real gardener is easy.