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Do I have a magnet in my pocket?

 

     Ladies, when your Dear Hubby retires, pray he finds something to do.  I can’t cook dinner without DH coming into the kitchen and getting under foot.  He’s worse than the dogs!  Five minutes earlier, when I was nowhere near the kitchen.  Did he need to get into the cupboard then?  Nope.

     As soon as I begin to cook dinner, he needs something from the cupboard above or below where I’m working.  Or, he blocks my access to the sink because he’s there fiddling with something.  It’s as if I have a magnet in my back pocket.

     Of course, the dogs compete with him over getting under foot, but at least I can chase them out of the kitchen and pull the baby gate across.  It’s a shame the gate doesn’t work on him.

     Don’t get me wrong I love DH dearly, I love the dogs too but geez, let me get dinner without having to trip over someone.  Please.  It’s an accident looking for a place to happen because I’ll be the first to admit it—I’m a KLUTZ!

Bath day for the pups…Oh no!

     I dread it.  Gavin and Patty are long over due for baths.  Why?  Because every time it’s a struggle to bathe them.  Well, the bath itself isn’t the struggle.  It’s getting them to the tub.

     Take Gavin, he will do anything for a cookie except follow you upstairs.  He hates baths.  He knows all the signs that there’s a bath in his future.  He knows that if you are on the stairs offering him a cookie this is not a good sign.  If you’ve taken the dog towels from the basement laundry to the bathroom, he knows someone is getting a bath.  He hopes it is Patty. 

     It isn’t, he goes first.  I put a leash on him, fill my pocket with cookies, and spend 15 minutes coaxing him upstairs and into the tub.  Once he’s in the tub, things go fast.  He’ll sit in the middle of the tub with his ears flattened to his head but he doesn’t fight it.  Once the bath is over with, he loves the drying part.  Then he dashes downstairs to pounce on DH and show him how clean he is.  I think he also tells Patty that she’s next.  Neener neener neener.

     Ah, Patty.  Patty weighs 65 lbs, as does Gavin.  She hates, hates, hates getting wet.  She makes bathing Gavin easy.  When she gets wind of a bath in her future, she hides in the back of her crate.  There aren’t enough cookies in the world to convince her that a bath is a good thing. 

     Have you ever tried to pry a 65 lb, stiff legged, dead weight dog out of a crate?  It isn’t easy.  Nor is it easy to drag that stiff legged, dead weight dog up a steep flight of steps, into the bathroom, and lift her into the tub.  Whereupon she goes into her ‘you hate me, poor pitiful me’ act as soon as the first drop of water hits her.

     Meanwhile Gavin giggles downstairs because he’s already had his bath and has a tummy full of cookies.

It’s time to accentuate the positive

     For many people this time of the year is the most depressing.  I know it has been so for me for a long time.  However, I am determined that THIS year I will work towards a more positive and happy attitude. 

     I will remember to make myself feel happier.  Smile and the world smiles with you, it is true.  When you wear a smile, people tend to smile back.  Once they’ve smiled at you they will smile at the next person they meet and so on.  Pass along a smile today.  It’s uplifting and such a small thing to do.

     I will listen to others.  Everyone needs to talk but finding a willing ear to bend is often a problem.  How was your day?  I’m listening.

     I will take time to play.  Yes, I said play.  Everyone should play.  Bring out that inner child and let him/her have some fun. 

      Hmm, there’s still one big, fluffy pile of leaves in the yard I think it’s time I joined the dogs in a good dive in the leaves.

For what are you thankful?

 

     I promised Dave, that sometime this month I’d do a post on what we are thankful for, so here goes.

     I’m thankful for every moment with my Dear Hubby, the love of my life, may we have many more years ahead of us.  I’m thankful that I’m healthy.  I’m thankful that we have a roof over our heads, our mortgage is paid, and we have food on the table.  I’m thankful for the love of two silly dogs.

     I’m thankful for the love and support of my wonderful Aunts and Cousins.  Have I told you all lately how much I love you? 

     I’m thankful for all my wonderful friends who never fail to lift my spirits.  I love you guys too.

     I’m thankful to be able to follow my own path in life.

     I’m thankful to be who I am, all I’ve experienced—the good and the bad, who touched me, who I’ve touched, and for those who have gone before me.  I’m thankful for the joys of living and the lessons of loss and grief.

     I’m thankful for the people who take time out of their day to read what I write here.

Gavin met Madison

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Madison, who always looks for me when they walk past the yard

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The nose knows

     Gavin finally met Madison today.  I was so proud of him he was a perfect gentleman.  He didn’t bark or show any of the hostility he has shown to many of the dogs people walk past our yard.  Could it because she’s also a BT?  I’m betting on it.

     Madison wasn’t too sure of him at first since she’d only moments before met with a hostile Pit bull who had snapped and growled at her.  Gavin was all tail wags and happy little whines of greeting.  What a flirt he was, trying to get her to come closer for a smooch.  He was thrilled when she eventually came to the fence to become acquainted.  That boy certainly loves the girls.

     Patty wouldn’t have been nice with Madison since she doesn’t like any other dogs.  Gavin is her one and only dog pal.  This all stems from the time a Pit bull attacked her through our back fence a few years ago.  It’s a shame because Madison has the energy to keep up with her (not that Gavin doesn’t) but another playmate for her would be nice.  However, she’d rather stick to her Gavin.

Thank you

     To all the people who clicked on my Keep a Breast icon I say, thank you.  For those of you who didn’t I say,  what are you waiting for?  If my sister’s beautiful face didn’t move you to click maybe this will… 

     As I said, my baby sister had a great sense of humor.  One day, after her first mastectomy, she  startled my Dear Hubby into peals of laughter when she asked, “Want to play with my Boob?”   and then threw her prosthesis at him.

Today she would’ve been 52

 

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 If  Mary had survived her last fight with breast cancer that took her away so young she’d be 52.  She didn’t, she lost that battle in 2001.  Her lively sense of humor will never brighten a room again.  In her memory, and as a favor to me, please click on the Keep a Breast icon at the bottom right hand side.

Jingle bells out

The doggy bells

     Yesterday Mari asked, “They ring bells?”  Yes, Mari my dogs ring the above bells to go out.  The bells are attached to the door that leads from the kitchen to the back porch.

     We taught our old male, Malcolm to ring the bells when he wanted out.  When we added our rescue girl Sadie to the household, he taught her how to ring them.  After he died, Sadie was our only dog for a while.  Then we got Gavin.

     Sadie was old by then, but she passed on the lesson of the bells to Gavin before she died.  Gavin became an expert bell ringer.  He can ring those bells so well and loud that it will drive a person (usually me) up a wall—he likes to go out, often. 

     Gavin taught Patty how to ring the bells after she arrived on our doorstep as a rescue.  She will ring them only when she really has to go out and she does it delicately.  With Gavin it sounds like Santa’s entire sleigh is battering down the door, with Patty you will only hear a little jingle of the bells.

Tons of leaves and two dogs

 

     Our yard has three trees, a large magnolia, a very tall tulip poplar, and a sweet gum tree.  In the spring and summer, I love them.  They shade our yard and house and keep us cool.  In the fall, I’m not so fond of them.  In the fall, they drop a ton of leaves.

     I raked leaves today.  Raked, and raked and raked them.  I raked leaves until I thought my arms would fall off.  I raked up enough leaves to hide several bodies in the piles if I wanted to.  Each pile is waist high and at least twelve feet long.

     Ah, yes the piles of leaves.  If you have kids (I don’t), they are a magnet.  You would think I’d have it easy without kids around.  However, I have two dogs who think they are kids and—you guessed it, the leaf piles are magnets to them.

     Our city will pick up the leaves if they are out on the street.  I need to haul those two huge piles of leaves out there.  Well, I will move them if I can keep the dogs out of them.

     I raked leaves.  Patty flew out the door and leapt into the nearest pile with great glee.  I raked the leaves back into the pile.  Gavin decided that she looked as though she was having fun so he followed suit and barreled into the other pile of leaves.  I raked again.  They both dashed through the first pile of leaves.  I raked.  With every trip outside—they played and I raked.

     My work gloves didn’t prevent the blisters from appearing on my hands.  I’m pooped.  Tomorrow the pups will be going outside on leashes until I can move the leaves out of the yard.

Um, the check is in the mail?

     I was going to sit down and write checks for all the bills tonight.  I guess I wasn’t supposed to.  After I wrote out the second check and went to write the third one, I was surprised to find that I didn’t have any checks left in the book.  “Okay,” I thought, “I’ll get a new book of them out.”  I dug around where I keep the checks and to my chagrin I found that yes, I’d used not only my last check in the book, but I’d used my last check.

     GAH!  Thank heavens I could go online and order more checks.  I hope the different companies I was writing checks to (okay, was going to write them to) can wait for the new checks to arrive since I can’t pay any of them online.  That’ll teach them.

     I’ve become so used to paying most of my bills through my bank or online I tend to forget that the city and county want their bills paid by check or cash.  They are so far behind the times it’s silly. 

     Now if only I can remember to buy stamps….

That’s a wrap…for this week.

 

     It’s been a long week.  In the last two days, the weather improved drastically.  We had a temperature of 75 degrees today and plenty of sunshine.  Whoopee!

     I now have a working oven light.  Another whoopee!  I no longer have to use a flashlight to check on things cooking in there.  My next door neighbor’s dear son came in today and was able to remove the end of the broken bulb.  Thank goodness for tall people with long arms!

     Dear Hubby is feeling much better since the oral surgeon removed the stitches.  In addition, I realized I haven’t heard him complain of a headache since the removal of those broken teeth.  That one deserves a big yippee!

     The pups are happy and healthy.  {Knock on wood there.}  I posted a new picture of Patty in the Bull Pen, and if you scroll down a few posts, you’ll see Waldo the owl.

     I managed to finish another chapter in my book without going postal.

     My kitchen is clean and I did some yard work today.  I do need to figure out how to plug the hose for the little gargoyle fountain since I’m worried that he might freeze and crack over the winter.  I’ll be bringing him in with all the other garden statuary until spring rolls around again.

Cold weather warm dog

 

     Still no sun.  The second Nor’easter is working its way through here.  Today we had gray skies, rain, and wind chilled air.  I’m not a fan of cold weather, never have been.  I’m looking forward to the forecasted sixty plus degree weather and sun later this coming week.

     Even with the heat on this old house has a certain chill and dampness about it when the weather is foul.  In between cups of coffee, I drink herb teas to help chase away the cold.  It’s been cool enough that Dear Hubby dug out his flannel shirts and several of his fleece tops. 

     I can’t wear those things because when I’m not chilly my inner child is playing with matches.  She’s a disagreeable soul who never heats things up when I need her the most.  No, she waits until I’m already warm to kindle her fires.  How unkind. 

     At one point tonight, I woke poor Gavin up to have him sit with me in my chair so I could share his warmth.  He didn’t mind too much because he does enjoy cuddling.  It was his idea to flop on his back beside me with his head on my shoulder.