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In the garden with DH
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At dinner last night, I told DH that the large cantaloupe has suddenly begun to ripen. “Another day or two and we’ll have some for dessert,” I told him.
Despite the heat, DH came out later to join me in the garden. He climbed onto his mobility scooter and went to check out the melon patch. “That melon sure looks good. It’s much bigger than the other four.”
“I lifted it and it is hefty. I can almost taste it.” I walked alongside him, and pointed out to him which tomato plants were which—Beefsteak, Big Boys, and the heirlooms.
He drove over to the back porch and checked out the potted plum tomatoes. “Think I can pick a few of these for my Mom?”
“Those aren’t ripe enough. I already picked some for her they’re on the kitchen counter. Just the plum tomatoes and the Beefsteak mind you, don’t you dare take my heirlooms.”
“She likes the plum tomatoes the best.”
“Good, that means you can leave the Beefsteak too.”
He laughed. “You are bad.”
“Yeah, but can I help it that I love tomatoes?”
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Some days other things take priority over writing
Posted by doggonedmysteries
I try to write every day. Some days I do more writing than other days. Today was one of those other days. The garden was screaming for a weeding and the weather was cool enough to do it comfortably. I couldn’t wait another day because we are expecting more humid and hot weather tomorrow that will last another week.
Then G came over and we roasted the Ancho and poblano peppers on the grill. We popped them into a plastic bag for fifteen minutes and all but two peeled easily. G went home with half the peppers for her freezer.
Yesterday, I picked two of the heirloom tomatoes and decided to make BLTs for dinner again. I’m so glad I did. Those tomatoes may be ugly looking but the flavor is marvelous. It was so good that as soon as I finished my dinner I ran the second tomato over to G. She had to taste it.
I got there in time for her to serve it with their dinner. Later she phoned to rave about it. I will plant them again next year. There are quite a few on the plant but they aren’t ripe yet. The Big Boy and Beefsteak tomatoes are also beginning to come in I picked two today. DH asked me if there were any plum tomatoes, he could take over to his mother. I brought in a whole basket full for him to choose from and took the rest to G.
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Enjoying the fruits of my labor
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Today G and I will roast Poblano peppers on the grill. Then after we peel them, we’ll bag them for our freezers. I have a large basket full of them all from the one plant in a pot with two other types of peppers.
The cucumber vine expired yesterday. A darned shame, I’ll certainly miss the fresh cucumbers. I did have quite a few and gave away many. They made the best cucumber salad. I tried two recipes for the creamy cucumber salad I remembered from my childhood visits to the family farms. I was searching for one similar to one my Aunt B served. I loved that salad. Both recipes I tried were wonderful but the second one was very true to my memory. I’ll plant cucumbers again next year.
I now have five cantaloupes growing. One is huge and makes the ones I saw in the supermarket look like minis. I drool over it every day. I am dying for it to ripen. There’s one watermelon on the vines. I picked the other one too soon so I intend to ignore this one for a while.
The Big Boy and heirloom tomatoes are beginning to ripen. We had wonderful BLTs for dinner the other night using a Big Boy tomato that was the first to ripen. I picked two huge heirloom tomatoes yesterday.
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Web crawlers
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She guards the tomatoes. Every evening she labors. She weaves, waits, and weaves some more. It is miles of silk to her. Impressive to us. Five feet across and tall, and begins three feet above the ground. A perfect circle. In the morning, it’s gone. She never leaves a strand of silk to warn others of her lair.
She’s one of many who live in the garden. One of many different species who weave their webs each day or night. She’s the largest.
We have water spiders who weave their webs over the pond. Their oddly shaped webs are as strange as the spiders who weave them. They are delicate and difficult to photograph.
Spiders, if they stay in the gardens, I’m fine with them, but come into my house and well…
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Ampyra the first week
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After two days, DH said he had a side effect, his nose was itchy. He said if that was all he got he could live with it. By day three, he seemed to walk more than he has of late. He’s spent more time outside with the dogs too. This is encouraging.
I just hope he doesn’t push himself too hard before he used to moving about more. We had a new futon mattress arrive this morning and he managed to get it upstairs and get the old one down before I woke. I’m not certain if it had anything to do with the Ampyra or merely his stubbornness in not asking for help.
Watching him walk around I see that he seems a bit steadier on his feet and doesn’t toddle about as slow as before. Again, I’m not certain if it’s the drug helping or not. I’ll withhold my judgment for a while.
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Gavin and the dreaded E-collar
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I am listening to a dog whining and shaking an E-collar against the sides of his crate as I sit here writing. Yep, Gavin’s ear started to act up again. He’s not happy with me right now. I’m not happy with his ear. I thought we’d finally beaten it. We were in the process of weaning him off his prednisone. Guess we won’t do that right away.
At last, he has settled down to sleep. I hope he sleeps through the night. Tomorrow I’ll make another appointment with the vet and once again, he won’t get his shots because his ear is causing problems that will require more antibiotics. Sigh. I swear he knows when we’re going to take him for shots and he starts digging his ears so he won’t get them. He hates going to the vet. He’s the first dog we ever had that hated going there.
We did have a cat who hated it. My old Siamese played Jekyll and Hyde. She was the sweetest cat in the world until she was on that exam table. You’d swear the devil had taken possession of her as soon as the vet walked into the room.
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Relocating a snake, a color changing Koi, and a toad hideout
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Last night I removed a rather large garter snake from my garden and relocated him to a distant area of the cemetery. The snake might have been large enough to make a meal of my littlest Koi and I wasn’t taking any chances. The little Koi is growing rapidly and turning into quite a character. He (We’ll use he here because at this age who knows.) never misses a meal.
When I first got him he was tiny compared our other Koi. Since then his size has quadrupled. He’s not afraid of the much bigger Koi either. He’ll swim right over their heads to seize a prime piece of food. When I brought him home he was black and yellow and, much to my disappointment, he’s become more black and orange than yellow. However, his personality makes up for his change of color. He is a brazen little devil.
We hadn’t seen our toad since the night my neighbor’s son gave him to us and we set him free in the garden. Last night I found him quite by accident. I picked up the green recycling can to put it out and there he was not happy that I discovered his hiding place. I inverted a clay pot over him and propped one end up with a small clay saucer so he could get out if he wanted. DH said he was gone when he put the can back in the morning.
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The answers are in the wind
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It was on the tip of my tongue and then whoosh it was gone. It happens to me all the time. It’s not age related because I’ve always been that way. Sometimes it names—well, most of the time it is, other times it is movie titles, book titles, authors, song titles, you name it and I’ve probably stumbled over it.
Get me in a game of Trivia and I will lose. I know the answers but my brain seizes up and misplaces them. I sit there dumb as a post.
DH sometimes will ask me who movie stars are in a movie we’re watching and even though I know their names for the life of me, I can’t tell him. That is until hours later when the names flash into my brain. Of course, he’s probably in bed by then and the answer is useless.
I’ve been told it’s because my brain is so busy with other things that trivia tends to waft off to the ether. I like that explanation it’s much better than thinking my brainpan is fried.
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Summer is dashing by
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It’s August already. I’m wondering where the time went. Winters seem to drag but spring and summer dash past. I look at the calendar and realize that I haven’t accomplished half of what I wanted to by this time.
I didn’t paint the kitchen. I didn’t buy the shelves for the back porch and put them up. The pups still need vet appointments and shots—note to self: must do that this week. I didn’t put in the patio I so desperately wanted to do. G and I didn’t get much walking in either. I’ve missed too many critiquing sessions due to things on my end or the other people’s.
However, it is worth it to put some things on the back burner and do other stuff that brings a smile. I’ve played in the dirt and watched things grow. I had the shed painted. I’ve spent time with DH and that’s a precious commodity. I’ve played with the dogs—another joy for me. I’ve taken my dear friend G to lunch and she’s taken me. Which means it’s my turn to take her out again.
I’ve made new friends. I enjoyed another writers’ conference. DH and I have celebrated another anniversary. Yep, it’s worth it.
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Thank you Mom
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Yesterday would’ve been my mother’s 95th birthday if she were still with us. G, DH, and I had some cake in her honor. G and her husband always helped us celebrate Mom’s birthday when she visited in the summer. A few times, we got Mom with a surprise birthday cake either here or at my Aunt’s home. Other times we took her out to dinner for her birthday and yes, even then she got cake. Mom loved birthday cakes.
Mom also loved hummingbirds and always had feeders out for them. They would flock to her feeders. G made her a stained glass hummingbird one year. Mom treasured it.
Now as for me, I never can seem to get hummingbirds to come to my garden. As soon as I’d see one I’d put up a feeder and then they never came back. I gave up a few years ago and gave away my feeders. The other day when I brought home yet another hummingbird feeder DH asked me, why had I bought a hummingbird chaser? Yeah, he’s a real funny guy.
Yesterday Mom sent me a sign that she is watching over us. I sat outside and watched a female ruby throated hummingbird go from flower to flower in my garden. I whispered a quick thank you to my Mom
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The hurrier I go the behinder I get…
Posted by doggonedmysteries
DH seemed to have a bit more energy today. It could be either the cooler mornings we’ve had the last couple of days or the new medication. He was doing well, until he went out into the hot shed, and removed the old battery from the riding mower. The heat in there wiped him out for a little while.
However, he did recover enough to take a short ride with me to a little hardware store. There, we turned in the old battery and bought a new one. Now he can run the mower without having to jump-start it each time. He can also shut it off to move things, instead of exhausting himself by moving everything before he begins to mow.
If I know ahead of time that he’s planning to mow, I will move everything the night before. It doesn’t always work that way. He often mows on a whim when he’s feeling well enough to do it. Now he’s mowed the yard and I have to trim.
That was another reason to go to the hardware store. I went to trim the yard yesterday and ran out of string on the trimmer before I’d gone two feet. Ever notice at times that even though you think you’re ahead, you’re actually behind?
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The Ampyra arrived and so it begins…
Posted by doggonedmysteries
After a complete cluster f***—it seems that the right hand had no idea what the left hand was doing. Gazillion phone calls from DH to the insurance company, the drug company, the doctors’ offices, and back again to straighten things out, we got a phone call saying the drug was on its way. Then another one saying it wasn’t. More phone calls and finally the Ampyra was on its way (again) this time it arrived.
Ampyra day one: DH’s Ampyra arrived at nine in the morning Thursday morning. He took his first dose soon afterwards. He’s supposed to take two a day twelve hours apart. I’m not sure how long or how many doses it’ll take before he notices a difference, if there is a difference. We’re hoping for some changes. It’d be nice if his walking improved.
We’ll give it a few days to a week to see if there is any change. I’ll let you all know if there is. Keep your fingers and toes crossed. It would mean a lot to him if his walking improves.
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