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It’s time to accentuate the positive

     For many people this time of the year is the most depressing.  I know it has been so for me for a long time.  However, I am determined that THIS year I will work towards a more positive and happy attitude. 

     I will remember to make myself feel happier.  Smile and the world smiles with you, it is true.  When you wear a smile, people tend to smile back.  Once they’ve smiled at you they will smile at the next person they meet and so on.  Pass along a smile today.  It’s uplifting and such a small thing to do.

     I will listen to others.  Everyone needs to talk but finding a willing ear to bend is often a problem.  How was your day?  I’m listening.

     I will take time to play.  Yes, I said play.  Everyone should play.  Bring out that inner child and let him/her have some fun. 

      Hmm, there’s still one big, fluffy pile of leaves in the yard I think it’s time I joined the dogs in a good dive in the leaves.

For what are you thankful?

 

     I promised Dave, that sometime this month I’d do a post on what we are thankful for, so here goes.

     I’m thankful for every moment with my Dear Hubby, the love of my life, may we have many more years ahead of us.  I’m thankful that I’m healthy.  I’m thankful that we have a roof over our heads, our mortgage is paid, and we have food on the table.  I’m thankful for the love of two silly dogs.

     I’m thankful for the love and support of my wonderful Aunts and Cousins.  Have I told you all lately how much I love you? 

     I’m thankful for all my wonderful friends who never fail to lift my spirits.  I love you guys too.

     I’m thankful to be able to follow my own path in life.

     I’m thankful to be who I am, all I’ve experienced—the good and the bad, who touched me, who I’ve touched, and for those who have gone before me.  I’m thankful for the joys of living and the lessons of loss and grief.

     I’m thankful for the people who take time out of their day to read what I write here.

Gavin met Madison

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Madison, who always looks for me when they walk past the yard

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The nose knows

     Gavin finally met Madison today.  I was so proud of him he was a perfect gentleman.  He didn’t bark or show any of the hostility he has shown to many of the dogs people walk past our yard.  Could it because she’s also a BT?  I’m betting on it.

     Madison wasn’t too sure of him at first since she’d only moments before met with a hostile Pit bull who had snapped and growled at her.  Gavin was all tail wags and happy little whines of greeting.  What a flirt he was, trying to get her to come closer for a smooch.  He was thrilled when she eventually came to the fence to become acquainted.  That boy certainly loves the girls.

     Patty wouldn’t have been nice with Madison since she doesn’t like any other dogs.  Gavin is her one and only dog pal.  This all stems from the time a Pit bull attacked her through our back fence a few years ago.  It’s a shame because Madison has the energy to keep up with her (not that Gavin doesn’t) but another playmate for her would be nice.  However, she’d rather stick to her Gavin.

Today she would’ve been 52

 

Mary    

 

 If  Mary had survived her last fight with breast cancer that took her away so young she’d be 52.  She didn’t, she lost that battle in 2001.  Her lively sense of humor will never brighten a room again.  In her memory, and as a favor to me, please click on the Keep a Breast icon at the bottom right hand side.

Jingle bells out

The doggy bells

     Yesterday Mari asked, “They ring bells?”  Yes, Mari my dogs ring the above bells to go out.  The bells are attached to the door that leads from the kitchen to the back porch.

     We taught our old male, Malcolm to ring the bells when he wanted out.  When we added our rescue girl Sadie to the household, he taught her how to ring them.  After he died, Sadie was our only dog for a while.  Then we got Gavin.

     Sadie was old by then, but she passed on the lesson of the bells to Gavin before she died.  Gavin became an expert bell ringer.  He can ring those bells so well and loud that it will drive a person (usually me) up a wall—he likes to go out, often. 

     Gavin taught Patty how to ring the bells after she arrived on our doorstep as a rescue.  She will ring them only when she really has to go out and she does it delicately.  With Gavin it sounds like Santa’s entire sleigh is battering down the door, with Patty you will only hear a little jingle of the bells.

Tons of leaves and two dogs

 

     Our yard has three trees, a large magnolia, a very tall tulip poplar, and a sweet gum tree.  In the spring and summer, I love them.  They shade our yard and house and keep us cool.  In the fall, I’m not so fond of them.  In the fall, they drop a ton of leaves.

     I raked leaves today.  Raked, and raked and raked them.  I raked leaves until I thought my arms would fall off.  I raked up enough leaves to hide several bodies in the piles if I wanted to.  Each pile is waist high and at least twelve feet long.

     Ah, yes the piles of leaves.  If you have kids (I don’t), they are a magnet.  You would think I’d have it easy without kids around.  However, I have two dogs who think they are kids and—you guessed it, the leaf piles are magnets to them.

     Our city will pick up the leaves if they are out on the street.  I need to haul those two huge piles of leaves out there.  Well, I will move them if I can keep the dogs out of them.

     I raked leaves.  Patty flew out the door and leapt into the nearest pile with great glee.  I raked the leaves back into the pile.  Gavin decided that she looked as though she was having fun so he followed suit and barreled into the other pile of leaves.  I raked again.  They both dashed through the first pile of leaves.  I raked.  With every trip outside—they played and I raked.

     My work gloves didn’t prevent the blisters from appearing on my hands.  I’m pooped.  Tomorrow the pups will be going outside on leashes until I can move the leaves out of the yard.

Cold weather warm dog

 

     Still no sun.  The second Nor’easter is working its way through here.  Today we had gray skies, rain, and wind chilled air.  I’m not a fan of cold weather, never have been.  I’m looking forward to the forecasted sixty plus degree weather and sun later this coming week.

     Even with the heat on this old house has a certain chill and dampness about it when the weather is foul.  In between cups of coffee, I drink herb teas to help chase away the cold.  It’s been cool enough that Dear Hubby dug out his flannel shirts and several of his fleece tops. 

     I can’t wear those things because when I’m not chilly my inner child is playing with matches.  She’s a disagreeable soul who never heats things up when I need her the most.  No, she waits until I’m already warm to kindle her fires.  How unkind. 

     At one point tonight, I woke poor Gavin up to have him sit with me in my chair so I could share his warmth.  He didn’t mind too much because he does enjoy cuddling.  It was his idea to flop on his back beside me with his head on my shoulder.

A Nor’easter blows through

 

     Nor’easter shmoreaster it’s friggin cold, windy, wet, and plain old miserable.  Wouldn’t you know I’d have to go out in all this muck to shop?  I hate shopping.  I hate it even more when it’s nasty outside. 

     There’s nothing like wrestling a forty pound bag of dog food out of a cart and slinging it into the back of the van with rain pounding down around you.  That is except schlepping bags from a fully loaded shopping cart of groceries into said vehicle on the same trip.  At which time there was the bonus of large snowflakes added to the downpour.  (Lee if you’re reading this, you can stop laughing now it didn’t stick to the ground.)

     Oh, joy, the first snow of the season, blecch!  Mother Nature isn’t finished with us yet, she’s ordered another Nor’easter to come through here right behind this one.  Gee, thanks Ma.

     The dogs and Dear Hubby were all snug in the house.  I was not.  I was carrying things into the house.  Rain soaked, windblown, and cold I dragged the last bag in.  DH told me he was going upstairs to take a nap.  And people wonder why I write murder mysteries…

You woke me for this?

 

     All day long, the dogs wanted to go out, come in, go out, come in…well, you get the idea.  If it weren’t for the fact that I never let the dogs out without one of us with them I’d put in a damned doggie door.  As usual, around seven tonight, they both conked out. 

     The rest of evening, they snored their heads off.  That is until it began to rain around eleven and Gavin decided he needed to go again.  I do think he regretted the whole idea when I opened the door and he saw it was pouring outside.  He backed up and headed towards the kitchen door.

     “No, no, no you wanted to go out so now you will go.”  I gently booted him out.  He sighed, dashed outside, squatted (yes, he still squats half the time) and then he dashed back in to his crate and waited for a cookie.  Within minutes, he was sound asleep again.

     Since I took one out, I figured the other should go too.  I opened the door on Patty’s crate.  She did not open her eyes, lift her head, or twitch an ear, or anything else.  She was zonked.  I wasn’t going to give up I shook her.  She lifted her head and gave me the look.  The ‘what the hell do you want?’ look.

     “Come on.  Time to go out.”

     She sloooowly climbed to her feet, stretched the back end, and then stretched the front end.  Patty doesn’t hurry unless she wants to.

     I walked her to the back door, opened it, and she gave me a look that would wither any normal person in their tracks.  I never said I was normal.

     “Out.  Go pee.”

     If she were taller, had hands, and could talk I think I would’ve been grabbed by the shirt collar as she said, “You woke me for this?”

     I have a sneaking feeling that she’ll appear on my bed early in the morning to bounce around and wake me, ‘just for ‘cause.’

Fall is here

 

     Fall has arrived.  The leaves are rapidly changing colors and dropping to the ground.  I need to get the netting up over the pond soon or I’ll have another huge mess to clean up next spring.  I went through it this year and I don’t want to do it again.  We do have to raise the netting a bit, so we don’t have the frogs snagging themselves. 

     I have some PVC pipe to use to construct a framework that I can drape the net over and clip it leaving a 3 to 4 inch space between the bottom of the netting and the ground.  That should keep most of the leaves out of the pond and give the frogs free access for as long as they need it.

     I took Gavin outside today the air was brisk, the wind moderate, and he was full of himself.  The fact is, he was full of himself he didn’t smell, see, notice, or find the dead frog.  He walked right past it.  No, it wasn’t Goliath.  It was a rather large bullfrog but not as big as the worm moocher, Goliath.

     However, at the time I didn’t know it wasn’t Goliath because these frogs are seldom active until dusk.  Later, I went out to check the pond and quite happily discovered Goliath sitting on the bench rock waiting for me to serve up some worms.

Baby, it’s cold outside

 

     It’s barely over forty degrees outside tonight and my furnace kicked on early this evening.  The dogs love this weather.  They’ve been total idiots for the last few days.  My bruises are proof of that.  With every wild romp around the yard or huckle butt in the house, I’m home base.  There’s nothing like having two 65 lb dogs land in your lap at the same time.

     The trees have begun to dress themselves in their fall finery, and at this rate, I’ll soon have to start raking the yard.  That means another bout of insanity with the dogs.  They are worse than kids are or I am when it comes to jumping into leaf piles.  Gavin and Patty beat me to them every time.

     We had such a wet summer we didn’t get to enjoy sitting outside in the evenings as often as we would have liked.  I’d sit outside now if I could do so comfortably.  But baby, it’s cold outside and I miss summer already.

I peeled myself from the ceiling

 

     So there I was working away on my book when a loud BANG shook the house.  It sounded as if a mortar had gone off in our driveway.  After I peeled myself from the ceiling, I cussed a bit because with the BANG, the power went out.  I looked at my computer monitor’s black screen, shrugged, and thought, “so much for writing.” 

     It was a few minutes before five and the dogs were hungry.  So was I.  Oh, great.  At least they could eat I don’t have to cook their food.  I fed the dogs while Dear Hubby called the power company—we were the 28th call in the few minutes after the BANG.  DH lit all the kerosene lamps.  I went out to talk to the neighbors who were gathering out on the sidewalks.  We all tried to figure out what had exploded.

     I saw G come home and went over to her house.  SHE HAD POWER.  First thing I said to her when she came to the door was “KMA, woman!  You have power.”  She laughed.  They always seem to have power when ours goes out.  They are less than a half block away from us but they are on another line.  However, I got the last laugh.  She was cooking their dinner.  Dear Hubby was ordering pizza.