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Let the painting begin!
Posted by doggonedmysteries
Today G and I will be cleaning walls and getting ready for the painter to work this weekend. The neighbor was over cleaning the living room walls yesterday and told me I won’t believe the difference with just that done.
When we leave, we’ll load the 1950’s dinette into the car and take it to Goodwill. All that leaves in the house is my dresser, armoire, the cedar chest, and the damned organ. I can’t even give that organ away! No one wants it. Now I’ll have to pay someone to come and take it away.
I’ve talked to my next-door neighbor’s son about coming over to the house and using his scaffolding and ladder to get into the attic for us. I hope we can quickly clear the attic of stuff. I really have no idea what is up there. I hope not much.
Posted in Misc
Tags: Bones, Bull Terriers, Dead, Disability, Doggoned, Life, Multiple Sclerosis, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Writer
Things are ripening in the garden
Posted by doggonedmysteries
Posted in my garden
Tags: Author, Caregiver, Dead, Disability, Doggoned, Gardening, Multiple Sclerosis, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Writer
We’ve reached the painting zone on the house
Posted by doggonedmysteries
I’ve hired a painter to come in and paint the MIL’s house. By the end of next weekend, the house will look very nice! We are now one giant step closer to selling it. Can I have a yippee?
Once the painting is finished, I need to get the flooring for the bathroom and kitchen.
Then our roofer needs to do the garage roof. When he’s finished, the ‘for sale’ sign goes up. Wish us luck!
Posted in Misc
Tags: Author, Bones, Caregiver, Dead, Disability, Doggoned, Multiple Sclerosis, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Writer
It’s only 88 days from now
Posted by doggonedmysteries
A peek at an idea for you…
Brad surveyed the ancient Victorian home with a jaundiced eye. “If I hear one moan, one groan, or one chain rattle, I’m out of here.”
“Aw, come on. It’ll be fun.” I tugged on his sleeve leading him up the steps.
“Fun for you, maybe.”
“Yeah, I always enjoy hearing a big strong man scream like a little girl.”
“Keep it up and I won’t go in there.” He gave me a look that would curdle milk.
“We’re getting paid. Other people have to PAY to go to this house.”
“Remind me, why are they paying us?”
“The say their ghosts are angry about something and they want us to find out what it is before they open the house to the public for Halloween.”
“Yeah, that’s the part I don’t get. We’re private detectives not freaking ghost busters.”
Posted in Holidays
Tags: Author, Dead, Doggoned, Fiction, Mysteries, Novel writing, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Writer, Writing
There are bad days and there are good days
Posted by doggonedmysteries
Some days, I find myself terrified out of my wits when I see DH having trouble getting around. Yesterday was one of those days. More hot weather had his MS in an uproar after he was only outside for a little while.
When he can barely walk from one end of the room to the other, tears make my vision swim. My heart weighs heavy in my chest as I watch him struggle to stand upright. I can hear my brain screaming, “I can’t do this.” Then my heart speaks up and says, “You love him. Yes you can.” Yes, I can do this. No matter what my fears, I can overcome them and be here for him.
I’ve learned only to offer my help when he is at his worst. Any other time, he growls at me. I know he doesn’t mean to be such a bear but sometimes it’s his only defense against feeling helpless.
Then there are those special days when I wander downstairs from an inadequate night’s sleep to find he’s poured my coffee and he has it fixed exactly the way I like it. Then he smiles at me and I fall in love with him all over again. We can do this no matter what his MS throws at us.
Posted in MS related
Tags: Bones, Caregiver, Disability, Doggoned, Love, MS, Multiple Sclerosis, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Writer, Writing
Home of the mooches
Posted by doggonedmysteries
Sometimes we have to share what we’re eating with the pups. It’s either do that or suffer through ‘the mooch.’ Gavin will rest his head on your knee and droooooool. Patty will sit directly in front of you and staaaaare at you.
If we open the freezer for an ice-cube, we must pay the toll of one for each dog or suffer the consequences. The walking blockade maneuver is the most frequent consequence and they use that on DH. I don’t have a problem walking so when they try it on me I can easily push them aside.
Never open a banana in this house and expect to eat it all. These dogs can hear the skin tear and will pop out of a sound sleep for some.
DH likes gummies and these too he must share. The pups get only the teensiest of samples, but it’s either he gives them some or they’ll poke him to death.
Posted in Dog related
Tags: Bones, Bull Terriers, Caregiver, Dog humor, Doggoned, Multiple Sclerosis, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Writer, Writing
Calgon, take me away!
Posted by doggonedmysteries
With the MIL’s house almost ready for painting, I had hoped my stress levels would drop knowing we might be able to put it on the market soon.
Then we got the county tax, city tax, and school real estate tax bills for the house. EEEEEKS!!!! I can’t believe how high they are when compared to ours. Double taxes, double utilities, double maintenance, this completely sucks. Moreover, we haven’t received the estimate for the roof repairs yet and we still have to pay for the funeral.
Excessive stress doesn’t help when it comes to writing. I find myself getting easily distracted all the time. Even reading, which for me is a passion, is difficult. All I can do is wait it out and hope for the best.
Posted in Misc, Writer, Writing
Tags: Bones, Bull Terriers, Caregiver, Dead, Disability, Life, MS, Multiple Sclerosis, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Property tax, Writer, Writing
Yes, I’m going to complain about the heat
Posted by doggonedmysteries
The last time I remember being in 103-degree weather, I was in Texas. Have I ever mentioned how much I dislike Texas? We hit a record of 103 degrees yesterday. Sorry, my southern friends, but some of us weren’t designed to tolerate temperatures over 90-degrees. Please, be kind enough to take your heat back and let us enjoy our normal summer weather.
Just taking the dogs out a several times so they could relieve themselves was more than enough. The five minutes it took to water my potted plants about killed me.
I’m not fond of cold, snow, and ice but I put up with it for our cooler summers. I like being able to go outside all summer. I hate staying inside in the AC. I’m no Southern Belle I’m a damned Yankee.
Posted in Weather related
Tags: Author, Bones, Bull Terriers, Care giving, Caregiver, Dead, Disability, Doggoned, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Writer, Writing
I have hit a milestone
Posted by doggonedmysteries
This is my 1000th post! When I began this blog, I never thought I’d keep posting daily for a long as I have. I’ve only missed posting on days I was too sick to get out of bed or when I was away at my writer’s conference.
I never thought I’d have return readers or, much less, a small following, but I do. To you my dear readers I say thank you for without you I wouldn’t have made it to this milestone.
You encourage me to keep writing even when I feel crappy. Writing on this blog has become a way to keep my hand in while my brain is out of gear on my mysteries.
I hope when we sell the house and things are back to a semblance of normal around here I will have no more problems with my books and can finish them in short order.
I promise you, if you hang in here with me during this rocky time, I will get them done.
Tags: Author, Bones, books, Books on writing, Bull Terriers, Care giving, Caregiver, Craft of writing, Dead, Disability, Doggoned, Family, Fiction, Home, Life, Love, MS, Multiple Sclerosis, Murder, Mysteries, Mystery, Novel writing, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Writer, Writing
Progress is made
Posted by doggonedmysteries
Yesterday G and I piled boxes of unsold items into my van to take to Goodwill. We crammed it full from floor to ceiling in the back without a rear seat there. Then we loaded the back seats and floor. We had the women at GW scrambling as we unloaded. They hauled a huge bin and many armloads into the place.
There’s at least one more load just like that left. I guess we’ll do that one next Wednesday.
Sunday I hope to load the dresser I’m keeping into my van, I do believe it will fit. After that, I’ll have to recruit some help to bring the Armoire home.
We’re almost ready for the painters!
DH stopped over while we were there but he couldn’t do much. This horrible heat did him in before he got in the door.
Posted in Misc
Tags: Author, Bones, Bull Terriers, Care giving, Caregiver, Dead, Disability, Doggoned, Family, Life, MS, Multiple Sclerosis, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Writer, Writing
A clean desk brings discovery
Posted by doggonedmysteries
I should clean off my desk more often. I had no idea I had two of Donald Maass’s ‘Writing the Breakout Novel’ workbooks. Maybe this is a cosmic hint? Can you guess what is going into a basket for the 2012 Pennwriters conference? (That is unless you want it, Dave.)
I know my muse isn’t happy with me. Heck, I’m not happy with me. I can’t seem to concentrate when I sit down at the computer to write.
DH says it’s because I have too much on my mind. He feels bad that I’m doing all the work at his mother’s house along with everything at home. Hey, if I don’t, no one else will. He certainly can’t do it.
Once we finish over there and get the darned place sold, things should settle down here and I’ll get my concentration back.
G and I are going over today to begin packing the leftover sale stuff up for Goodwill.
Posted in Misc, Writer, Writing
Tags: Author, Bones, Books on writing, Bull Terriers, Care giving, Caregiver, Craft of writing, Dead, Disability, Doggoned, MS, Multiple Sclerosis, Novel writing, Post A Day, Post A Day 2011, Writer, Writing
We should have asked for permission
Posted by doggonedmysteries
We got rid of our sofa bed yesterday. Patty is not happy. That’s her on it above. She thought it was hers. She has been pouting ever since it left.
Posted in Dog related
Tags: Author, Bones, Bull Terriers, Care giving, Caregiver, Dead, Dog humor, Doggoned, Dogs, Rescue Dogs, Writer, Writing













