His mother may be leaving us soon

 

     DH’s mother is not doing well.  She spent a few days in the nursing home only to be sent to another hospital the other night.  The nursing home didn’t call us to let us know but, thank goodness, the hospital did.

     She didn’t know DH when he went to see her yesterday.  However, she did eat a little bit of her lunch for him. 

     I ache seeing him hurting like this.  All I can do for him is offer the same comfort he’s given me so often in the past. 

     It’s sad when our parents leave us.  I’m so glad I told my mother I loved her whenever I spoke to her.  I’m glad that although he couldn’t speak, I knew that my father knew me, his eyes lit up and he squeezed my hand when I said, “I love you, Pop.”  I was the only one of his daughters that ever got away with calling him Pop.

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Posted on November 10, 2010, in Uncategorized and tagged , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 5 Comments.

  1. I’m so sorry to hear such sad news. I hope that she’s not suffering and that DH (and you) are coping OK. x

    We go day to day–something we are used to doing with his MS anyway.

  2. It is hard – trying to help our parents die with dignity is the greatest gift we can give them for putting up with us as kids.

    True.

  3. Thinking of you all xx

    Thanks, Jo. xx

  4. So sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you both.

    Thanks, Hon.

  5. My best to you and DH at this time, hugs.

    Thank you.

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