When do you ‘unfriend’ someone on FB?

I unfriended someone on Facebook today. I’ve only done it once before. That was a person who spouted a lot of racist and homophobic remarks who revealed to me someone who in actual physical life would not be a person I’d have as a friend.

Today’s person was someone who shared many of the same ideals I do. However, she revealed her deeper, truer nature over the past few days and I didn’t like what I was seeing.

It began with a thread stealing rant on a page, not hers, where she insulted the page owner, a person for which I have a great deal of respect. Not something you want to do around me if you want to retain my friendship. The insults she hurled and the entire rant had nothing to do with the thread. Strikes one and two.

The next day, she began a vitriolic name calling session directed at people who did not deserve her attitude. Yeah, maybe she’s had a few bad days, but that is no excuse.

The old adage of ‘if you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything’ comes to mind.

As I said, I don’t often unfriend, but she went too far and made me uncomfortable with her attitude. I don’t need someone like that as a friend.

Dictionary.com defines friend:

noun
1. a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
2. a person who gives assistance; patron; supporter: friends of the Boston Symphony.
3. a person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile: Who goes there? Friend or foe?
4. a member of the same nation, party, etc.
5. (initial capital letter) a member of the Religious Society of Friends; a Quaker.
6.a person associated with another as a contact on a social-networking website:We’ve never met, but we’re Facebook friends.
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Posted on January 17, 2015, in Misc and tagged , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. I do it every day

  2. Sometimes it is necessary to take an inventory of your friend’s list and clean house. I too have unfriended because I could not accept or tolerate the hate that was showing up on my thread.

  3. Sounds to me like it was a good call on your part. I could never continue being friends with one who did that, either. šŸ™‚

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