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Twenty rules I try to live by…

1. Life isn’t fair, grow up and deal with it.
2. Tell your loved ones you love them as often as you can, you might not get a chance to say it tomorrow.
3. Life is too short – don’t waste time whining over small stuff.  Live.
4. Be you, don’t try to be someone you aren’t.
5. You are in charge of your happiness.
6. Forgive but never forget what you learned.
7. Dance in the rain.
8. It’s OK to cry.
9. Burn the fancy, expensive candles, use the 1500 ct sheets, wear the luxury lingerie. Don’t save things for a special occasion, enjoy them now.
10. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to do the crazy things you’d like to do.
11. In a so-called crisis always ask yourself, “In five years, will this matter?”
12. Don’t try to keep up with the Joneses, who cares what others think?
13. Only spend what you can, not what the credit company says you can.
14. Clutter weighs you down. If you haven’t used it in a year and it isn’t something you use only for a holiday, get rid of it.
15. What doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
16. Kiss your dogs and cats on the lips, and hug them every day. 
17. Fly a kite once in a while.
18. Eat chocolate and drink wine without guilt.
19. Laugh and sing for the sheer joy of it. 
20. When in doubt, ask… there is no such thing as a dumb question.

Yay! I have started the vegetable garden.

     Yesterday G and I stopped at a favorite nursery and while I loaded up on some lovely vegetable plants, G found flowers to replace what the wet weather and bugs destroyed in her garden.

     I now have six tomato plants, two pepper plants, a nice group of four basil plants, and four eggplants ready for the pots beside the house.  Not bad for my first load.  I also bought some Rudbeckia, lavender, and zinnias.  In a week or so I’ll go to the larger nursery we usually go to and pick up more veggies for the back garden.  I want a few more varieties of peppers, bush cucumbers,  and some early eggplants.

     I did plant some tomatoes and the basil in pots yesterday.  Today I’ll finish the job and get the flowers planted in the pots on the front porch.

     You all have a good one!

Precious memories

     Father’s day is just around the corner.

      This is my father.  He hasn’t been here for a long time.  He died in November of 1995, but he was gone for quite a few years before then.  Dad had several strokes, one finally damaged his brain enough to put him in a nursing home. He was to spend quite a few years locked in the prison of his damaged mind.

     When I was a little girl he used to take me with him to run errands.  He would tease me and say I was his favorite.  I never thought I was, but considered it sweet of him to say so.  I’m sure when he had any of the other four sisters out on excursions he would tell them the same thing.

     For as long as I can remember an oil portrait of him as a young minister preaching a sermon hung in our home.  That painting a few other items made any new house we moved to our home.  He, on many an occasion caught me staring at his portrait, it was on more than one occasion that he told me one day the painting would be mine. 

     Dad is long gone and so is my mother.  The dear to my heart painting is lost to me too.  However, he lives on in my heart,  and forever he will have residence there.  There’s nothing in the world that can take my precious memories of him away. 

     If your father is still around, if he was a good man, hug him and tell him how much you love him.  You won’t regret it.

     You all have a good one!

Lovely walk yesterday

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The noses know and they let us know they know.

     Nothing in this house goes without complete investigation.  Our two private dogvestigators make sure they know exactly where we’ve been, who we’ve been with, and if there were any dogs or other critters present.  Heavens forbid that you’ve been near more than one dog.

     Multiple dog scents mean a thorough sniffing over every inch of the body.  Ice cold noses make sure to hit and linger over any bare spots on the anatomy.  Summer clothes reveal the back of the knees, a favorite spot to place their noses.  I think they do it mainly for the squeals they get.

     Any packages or bags need investigating by the doggie duo.  They sniff each item, we can’t sneak anything past them.

     Do you have your own private investigators?

     You all have a good one!

Sometimes people are wonderful!

     The day before yesterday was a horrible day here.  The Curmudgeon’s MS knocked him for a heck of a loop.  I had to get G’s husband over to help get him up from the floor.  Knowing we were heading over to the courthouse the next day stressed me out.  I could not see him trying to walk into the building at all.

     Yesterday we had to go to the courthouse to the registrar of wills office to meet our attorney and do a ton of paperwork.  I couldn’t sign the papers for The Curmudgeon, he HAD to be there.  Fortunately, he had a better day and was able to walk into the building.  It wouldn’t have been necessary because they were willing to come out to the car to do it all!  He didn’t have to stand, they took us to a small office where he could sit comfortably.  Before we knew it and with a minimum of fuss it was over and we were on our way home.

     I can’t get over how accommodating they were for him.  It’s  sad, but I’ve found that this is a rare thing.

     Thank you registrar of wills!  You were wonderful!

     You all have a good one!

Do you meditate?

     I am trying to get the hang of meditating.  For someone like me, it isn’t an easy task.  I do have one lovely guided meditation CD that I’m hoping will work and there’s another on its way to me.   I’ve always had trouble grounding and centering.

     I wasn’t raised in a family where  meditation was a daily occurrence.  You took things as they came, put one foot in front of the other, and pushed on.  You didn’t whine and complain.

     I’m hoping to ‘get it’ to get that centered, grounded, and relaxed state of balance I so need now.  I felt as though I’d almost made a breakthrough in a yoga class I took a couple of years back but soon afterwards the class ended, the place upped the prices, and I had to stop going. 

     I have a feeling that if I succeed, I will have the tools to jump-start my creativity.  So I ask you, do you meditate?  Have you been able to find your balance?  Do you have any suggestions?

     You all have a good one.

Belling the cat doesn’t always work…

     Many years ago we had a Siamese cat who should’ve been named Diana for her hunting skills.  However, she was named Snoopy because she couldn’t resist checking everything out from her first day with us.   She wore a bell and yet continued to gift us with many a dead animal.  Snoopy did learn that killing birds brought nothing but disapproval from us so she restricted her hunting to small furry creatures.

     When she stalked her prey you never heard that bell ring.  Fagin’s juvenile crew of pick pockets had nothing on her keep-the-bell-from-ringing skill.  That little seven pound cat could run like hell and keep the bell silent.  You only heard that bell of hers if she wanted you to hear it.

     I often observed her stalking some creature with the bell as silent as if she’d had a fifth paw to hold over it.  Then when I’d call her she come running with bell making all sorts of noise as if we hadn’t seen her silent sneak.  Once The Curmudgeon and I married, she came with me and became a house cat.  That never stopped her from hunting–she kept our house mouse free until she died at a little over twenty years of age.

     You all have a good one!

Breaking in the new neighbors…

     Unfortunately, in this neighborhood where most of us own our homes, and have done so for over twenty years, we do have a couple of rental properties.  These are owned by absentee landlords from another state.  One such place is across the street and the turn-over is horrific.

     The new neighbors moved in this week.  So far they’ve had two extremely loud parties and tons of people who are determined to either park in our driveway or block it.  Neither goes over well with us.  With both The Curmudgeon and me having medical conditions, we need the ability to leave on a moment’s notice.  I don’t have time to hunt down some stranger who has parked in front of or in our driveway. 

     I just had a discussion with one person about not blocking our driveway.  I told them that the ‘free getting to know you’ period was over and the next car to park in or block the driveway will have the police called on them and the gift of a ticket.  I hope they got the message.

     I would never dream of blocking or parking in someone’s private driveway but then I was raised to respect other people and their property.  Sigh, it seems to be a lost art these days.

     You all have a good one!

The final item out of the MIL’s house!

 

The last piece that needed to come home.  It should arrive sometime today!

The Curmudgeon is better today.

You all have a good one!